Decide and Agree to become a new person.
When we want to have our experiences improved, well, the particular experiences cannot be improved beyond their own inherent quality.
What we actually need to do is create a brand new experience.
We are new each day. That newness can appear as anything we want. We can have a sudden change or step-by step changes.
It’s like this: you are asleep at night & just before awakening, you take a moment to reflect upon what you want to live out.
You look at the experience that is closest to you – the one you were living yesterday – and make a judgment & then a decision.
Most often, you decide to go on and live what is already in play in your experience or perhaps, you decide upon something else – a different experience.
When the experience is uncomfortable or painful:
- People often don’t realize or believe that it’s possible to change an entire experience.
- Very often people decide they are too attached to that close, personal experience to abandon it. This is usually an unconscious activity.
- They decide to continue with the situation as it is, affirming that they will find a way to improve it.
- Perhaps there is an emotional attachment that they consciously or unconsciously associate with the situation and for some reason they want to stay in touch with that attachment.
- Perhaps it is an uncomfortable situation, one they want to be free of, yet they, on some level, believe that being in the situation keeps them involved with a particular person, place or thing that they want to stay in touch with.
- Perhaps it is a situation that they feel is unfinished, one they feel a responsibility to complete.
- Perhaps it is a situation they feel responsible for and have the desire to fix it or help it along.
Most often, people do not even realize that they are making a choice in what they are creating every day. They let the past or non-beneficial beliefs rule their whole self and so they simply keep going along the same path as before.
Picture it this way: it’s like every day being a brand new person, taking on the characteristics of an old creation/person.
Usually people don’t realize that the attachments they have are to a feeling rather than to an actual person, to an actual life. They believe that they will have to sever loving ties when creating something new..
They don’t remember that the spirit of love follows them wherever they go, whatever they do. Loving relationships will follow into new creations.
They also have a lot they realistically enjoy about the old creation and want those aspects to continue.
There is a way that people can live anew while still enjoying the pleasurable aspects of the old creation.
- They plant themselves in the midst of the old picture – as a new person. Intending to, every day, be even ‘newer’.
- Every day they review the results and experiences of being the newly created self and build upon them, they go further with the new creation.
- They do this every time their waking consciousness is set aside, or is about to be set aside: like during meditation or sleep. This review is intentional as is each new self creation.
- They continuously and consciously affirm how grateful they are for the enjoyable life relationships and circumstances that followed them into the newness and also for all the new ones that showed up.
How this new creation ability is maintained is: by keeping the human mind in tune with Creative Mind. Creative Mind appreciates what It has created. It’s full of appreciation.It allows it’s creations to live; It’s creations live by intention.
**An example: Our home survives because we intend it to; this intention compels us to physically care for it.
In order to co-create with Creative Mind, we use intention.
We decide who we are now and we see and live that person.
We intend appreciation, we appreciate. The more we appreciate, the more we are in line with Creative Mind. The more in line with Creative Mind we are, the more we are speaking into it. What we speak is created.
So, we state what we want. We remain in the state of appreciation and the state of acknowledging who we are. Now we are in line with Creative Intelligent Force. It is created.
But – what is created anew is not an attachment to the old. It is completely new! We have co-created a new self. We have not co-created a new car for Sally-Jo.
We have co-created a Sally-Jo with a new car.
*See the 1/27/11 post on my Numerology Blog: Person-Choosing-Divine